– Written by DJ Doughboy
Ever been cheated on? Hey, it happens to the best of them. However the real question is, who’s to blame? Them? Or YOU?!?
Some of you are so busy blaming the cheaters that you have forgotten YOU were the one in the relationship with them. I mean, there are some good liars out there. But there aren’t that many. You mean to tell me, you were attracted to this person who can’t keep their pants on. Dated this person who can’t keep their pants on. Had sex with this person who can’t keep their pants on. Got engaged to this person who can’t keep their pants on. Got married to this person who can’t keep their pants on. Had kids by this person who can’t keep their pants on. And had NO IDEA what kind of person they were??? Come on. He’s not THAT good. Hell you act like your lover puts on the Ethan Hawke face mask from “Mission Impossible” every time he comes home to you. Come on he’s a regular dude; not James Bond. Even Jason Bourne would have gotten found out by now. Things couldn’t have been that terrible or you would have let that go way before the relationship got so serious. But you won’t admit that. So admit this… YOU weren’t PAYING ATTENTION. There’s no way you could have let a person like that play you if you were on your ‘A game’. If you were, you would have either:
A: Saw your partner really couldn’t keep their pants on and terminated the relationship before it started.
B: Saw you had a decent relationship but there was a void somewhere so you communicated and filled it. Or…
C: Saw you had a decent relationship but there was a void somewhere and you just couldn’t fill it so it was time to go your separate ways.
But guess what? You didn’t do any of those. So be mad at your ex for being no good. But also be mad at yourself for allowing yourself to be taken for a ride for that long. This way, while you’re busy being angry, you may actually learn something to prevent there being a ‘next time’……
These are just my “Thoughts from the DJ Booth”. Until next time…
– DJ Doughboy
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